I Won’t Say I Told You So…

Every once in awhile, I get something right…

Remember back in December? When I did My Top Ten Albums of ’08? A little band from Cali called The Ruse was at the top of the list…Well, Ryan Dixon over at iTunes heard them and is now making waves for them, putting their “Midnight in the CIty” album on the iTunes New Music Tuesday podcast and now in the “What We’re Listening To” section of iTunes.  I’m tellin’ ya, folks, it’s only a matter of time before The Ruse is a household name!

The Ruse on iTunes

So excited for the guys!!

And while we’re speaking of California bands, head on over to iTunes and check out this great little band I stumbled upon… Venus Infers. It’s the perfect cusp-of-summer music. Super modern rock/alt-pop with surf influences kind of sound happening, a little Strokes meets Kooks kind of action. Digging them in a huge way!

A turning point in music for those that deserve it most

For the first time this weekend, I felt a perceptible shift in the direction of the music industry. I’m speaking purely from a fan perspective here – I know nothing about the music industry as a business person (nor do I really have the desire to). Perhaps it’s a little premature and perhaps shaded by a little naivete and bias towards bands that I love, but I really think that maybe, good changes are afoot.

On Friday night, I watched Shane Hines and The Trance take the stage on their home turf, to a sold-out venue, to release their new CD, The Glory Journal. The CD was entirely fan-funded. That should say something right there – that this amazing band is able to put out a professionally recorded CD without the support of any label, entirely on the faith that their fans have in them, is pretty intense. I’ve been a fan of Shane, Thumbs and their band for several years now, and each time I watch them on stage, I’m blown away more than I was the time before. Not only is their music absolutely amazing, they continue to mature and evolve as artists and constantly amaze me with the depth and insightfulness of their songs, and the quality of their music. They aren’t afraid to take risks, try new things, and really put themselves out there. I’ve seen them play to crowds of 10 and crowds of hundreds. I’ve seen them play listening rooms and smoky, loud bars where they deserved better. I’ve seen them awe people with covers and knock it out of the park with their originals. On Friday night, I stood amongst a crowd of new and old fans and watched them step into another “new” era for their band. A friend who was with me – relatively new to their music and her first time seeing them live – turned to me at one point during the show and said, “They are absolutely amazing.” Watching that room be in love with them, I was filled with excitement for what is yet to come in their path as a band, proud of them as both a long-time fan and a friend, and inspired by their art.

In a similar moment on Saturday night, I watched a young, newly signed band on stage and was floored by their development. I’ve only been a Green River Ordinance fan for two years, and just saw them live for the first time in January. They’re on their first “big tour,” reaching out to fans who have never seen or heard of them before. Firstly, I have to say that in two months, they’ve gotten even stronger than when I saw them the first time. And talk about winning over a room. A crowd there mostly to see the other band was wowed by them, to the point where someone in our circle said, “Man, I’d hate to be the band that had to follow them.” They are full of the energy of a young band, with all the optimism that entails. They truly want to reach out to every member of the audience and say, “Hey, we’re GRO and we want you to love our music.” One member of the band was fighting the flu, but unless you knew that, you never would have been able to tell. He put it all out there, never letting on that he probably wanted to run off stage, puke and go to sleep. They worked hard to get that crowd to love them, and they were rewarded. And then, after the show, they made a point of talking to everyone that they could. They treat fans they’ve met once with the same regard as long-time fans that have supported them since they started this project six years ago at seventeen years old. They are friends who love making music together for the sake of making music, and that’s evident just by watching the chemistry they have on stage.

Another band that plays with them in Texas, Sleeperstar, recently wrote a Facebook note encouraging their own fans to buy GRO’s record, even if it meant not buying their record. In a music industry where it seems like everyone is out for their own selves, that kind of mutual admiration only comes from true respect for the band as musicians and as people. They also made another phenomenal point, which I must excerpt here because I couldn’t have said it better myself.

“I say all this because it’s an exciting time in music, it’s an exciting time for GRO, and it’s an exciting time to get to see a band release a record at a time when NO ONE gets to release records on major labels…. so for the GRO guys to get a record released, ESPECIALLY IN THIS ECONOMY, it’s a win for them but it’s also a win for every single one of us who has cheered on good bands, supported your buddy who is writing songs in the dorm while learning biology, not filled your car up with gas so you could purchase the bands cd who came to your home town and made you fall in love all over again with music…”

– From a Sleeperstar Facebook Note

And I guess, sort of, that’s my point. The music industry seems as though it’s been in flux for several years and a lot of what has been put out there for the public to consume “en masse” isn’t all that appealing. I don’t think we’ll ever see again a music industry with “mega stars” – a la the Beatles, Michael Jackson in the 80s, or New Kids on the Block in their heyday. There are too many people competing for space in the market. But, that being said I think music has become a much larger part of culture than it has ever been before, and therefore, despite no mega-stardom, it is possible for artists to make a living doing what they love. And it’s awesome to watch good bands finally starting to succeed on their talent, and not by how much money is put behind them. It’s a testament to the “power of the people” that talented musicians who have worked hard can reap the rewards of a loyal fan base and become “known” because their fans and friends are spreading the word about them, not because they’re being played 16,000 times a day on mainstream radio.

And you know what? It’s really something to watch happen.

Why I love sad music…

“Oh lord, I’m not ready for this sort of thing…” – Counting Crows, “Anna Begins”

I’m always intrigued by what draws people to the music that they love. I have one friend who is happiest when she’s watching energetic pop-rock shows. I have another friend who adores jam band music, particularly stuff with great percussion. Me, it seems like I love as many different types of music as I have moods – a lot, trust me – but what I love the most is sad music. The gut-twisting, tears from nowhere, hysterical gasping for breath kind of sad.

I don’t think I realized this until recently when I was listening to my iPod on shuffle while I was working out and I kept having to forward through songs because everything was too mellow for being on the elliptical. But it got me thinking – why is it that sad music makes me feel better, even if it makes me emotional?

I have a live solo show recording of a young singer who typically fronts a pop-rock band. There’s a good bit of banter between him and the crowd and it’s a fairly upbeat show. But, at one point, he talks about how people who write songs and poetry just seem to have a stronger “sad” streak than other people in the world. This, I think, gets somewhat close to explaining the why I love sad music thing…

Art, in a lot of ways, is turning the details into the big picture for the world to see. Whether it’s a song, a poem, a picture, a film, a play, or a sculpture, the best art draws your attention to something you might normally miss and makes you feel it in some way. I think artists – writers, painters, sculptors – are hyper aware of everything by their nature. Some will argue with me, but I think this makes us more prone to feeling things in ways that other people don’t. I’m not sure of the right word to use here – ironic, I know. Do we feel things deeper? I don’t think that’s the word I want? More intensely? Or are we just more prone to hypersensitivity? I don’t know….But I just feel like that’s the way it is.

As a writer, the easiest thing for me to express is happiness. The hardest things are sadness and despair. Maybe because they are really internal and often well hidden. When it comes to music, the first thing I connect with in any song are the lyrics. I guess that’s the writer in me appreciating the words. And maybe because sadness is so hard for me to express….because the details of it are often buried in places the world can’t see and it takes work to bring them to light…maybe that’s why I find sad songs the most beautiful kind of art.

The Rock Boat Recap

Every year, I come back from my annual rock n’ roll adventure on the sea with great intentions of writing about the experience…and every year, I fail. Epically. I think I have decided that it is relatively impossible to explain it to someone who has not experienced it. Take 30 artists/bands – most of them amazing – add many of my closest friends, a dash of margarita (and other beverages), the sunshine, and Caribbean air and you’ve got a recipe for something magical.

It was a terrific lineup this year and I feel like I saw more shows this year than I ever have before… And, oddly enough, spent more time with more friends than ever before. Rather than try to sketch out a day-by-day, I’m going to tackle my highlights (these are not in any special order):

1. Finally seeing Green River Ordinance live. After two years as a fan, the ultimate high point of TRBIX was getting to see this amazing quintet from Texas on stage. They were everything I knew they would be and more… It was such a treat to chat with them and get to know some of them, too. They are all such great kids, especially that J Whiskey fella. 🙂

2. Scott Feil’s Fan Club. Seriously, Scotty has got to be the most loveable…and loved…guy on earth. And his friends are all fantastic people. Erinn, Cory, Liz, Sujka…it was awesome spending time with you! And Scott, of course. Darlin’, is it possible for me to love you anymore? I’ll be eternally grateful to Will Hoge for bringing you into my world…

3. Aslyn. I’ve always managed to catch pieces of her sets on the Boat and last year, finally managed to work in a full set. This year, three of them. Aside from having a phenomenal set of pipes, there is no singer out there who I think captures the range of emotions women go through in a truer way. I can’t stop listening to The Dandelion Sessions.

4. Tonic. Back together. On The Rock Boat. Need I say more? “Mountain”…TWICE! Kevin’s shout outs to CW on his drum kit were a touching tribute to a musician who left us too soon.

5. Carbon Leaf…in particular, covering “Livin’ on a Prayer” and the whole entire Boat singing along at the top of their lungs. I got up the nerve to talk to Carter (3 double margaritas in) on the last night. Still can’t get near Barry without going dumb.

6. The rest of the Boat FINALLY getting how amazing Sam Thacker is. And Stephen Kellogg saying (about “The Last”) “I wish I’d written this song.” Yay… Sammy’s rock star is shining bright!

7. Lee and Peter. So glad I met these two fellas at The Heyday show back in October. Spent lots of time with them on the Boat… Happy they are my neighbors in Charlotte. Lee… breakfast at Panera soon!

8. Time with “my girls” & Mr. P. Michelle, Gail and Marc..I adore you all. Thanks for understanding me and being just as crazy in love with the music as I am.

9. Trevor Hall & Tyrone Wells. Both new for me, both wonderful. Can’t wait to get to know their music better!

10. Chocolate Melting Cake. Most likely better than sex.

11. Emerson Hart. This man’s live performances leave me speechless every time. There are very few musicians whose songs touch me in the way that Emerson’s do. And live…he is just so dynamic. Sujka called it…Part concert, part comedy show, part Dr. Phil session. All wonderful.

12. Gareth on board. The only person who can instantly make me smile just by walking into a room.

13. PAVE THE WORLD! I’d lost my voice by night two…Michael Tolcher was rocking it in the very crowded, very smoky casino bar. No way that he was going to hear me hollering. So I begged Lee to yell my “Pave the World” request. Tolcher: “You know what, I’m gonna do that for you!” The only thing that would have made it better would have been Christy singing along next to me. “The aliens are coming! What? The aliens are coming….Pave the world!”

14. Hanson sing along. On the last night, at Aslyn’s show, a Hanson and his wife ended up standing next to us. Aslyn asked the girls to sing one part, while the boys were to sing another. And that little Hanson sang along, smiling the whole time. Was nice to see one having a great time without being hounded by fans.

15. Wideawake and The Kin singing together. Scott Leger with Aussie brother harmony? Quite possibly perfection in music.

16. Katey and Scott airport time. I only get to see my friends from Birmingham once a year, and we’ve made hanging out on flights to and from TRB a tradition. I can only hope that when and if I meet my Mr. Right, we have as great a relationship as Katey and Scott do.

17. Inauguration. Watching Barack Obama become the 44th President of the U.S. was going to be emotional for me no matter where I watched it. But watching it in a room full of people who shared my pride in the moment was nothing short of beautiful. Applause every time they showed Obama or Biden. I actually teared up. There’s no place and no other people with whom I’d rather share the day…

There’s so much more, but nothing that I write can do it justice. It’s truly the most amazing experience every year. And despite losing my voice, getting an average of 3-4 hours of sleep a night, and spending ENTIRELY too much money…it’s SO worth it. BEST.VACATION.EVER.

Bring on Rock Boat X.

The Lazy Writer’s Update

The road to hell is paved with writers who are lazy. Trust me. I’m headed there.

I haven’t really felt like blogging the last few days. There’s so much general stuff going on in my life that whenever I sit down to write, I’m overwhelmed by the magnitude of things I want to write about. It wears me out before I even start typing, so I give up.

Anyway, as I’m running on 2.5 hours sleep from last night and I really should be in bed because I am running with the gang in the morning, I have no idea why I’ve chosen now to sit down and make a blog entry. Perhaps because I know that I don’t have a lot of time to dedicate to it (or energy, honestly), I can take the lazy writer’s way out and not feel guilty about it: the list.

So here it is, the quick and dirty list of things going on with me.

1) I haven’t been able to wash my car in over two weeks and it’s frustrating. Why, you ask? Because it literally as been raining every other day. And, of course, they’re calling for rain again this weekend. Tomorrow. During the Panthers playoff game. Thank goodness I don’t have tickets. I’m tired of the rain. I’d like it to stop. Now. I’m soggy.

2) I’m moving. Sad, but true. Hate leaving this space – been here for almost six years – but the time has come to have my own place again. I’m tired of roommates. So I’m moving back to the complex where I lived before I lived here. I liked it there, I was happy…it’s closer to the office and most of the places I do shopping and errands, so it just makes sense.

3) Rock Boat next week! Needs no explanation. SO in need of a vacation.

4) Signed up for half-marathon #1 of the year. My goal is to complete two this year, so this is a good start. The race is here in Charlotte in April. It’ll be good. I think everyone in our little Saturday morning run group is going to do it, ‘cept for Jill because she’ll be recovering from ACL surgery. Speaking of the group, we start our regular runs again this week…I’ve missed them (both the group and the runs). Anyway, good training with my peeps commences at 8 AM tomorrow morning…And the race is 116 days away! http://www.charlotteracefest.com

5) Because of having my own place, budget belt shall be tightened over the next 12 months. Sad, but true. Means fewer shows (it’s going to kill me, trust me), fewer trips, and less fun. I know. It blows. That being said, I’m thinking about driving up to DC for Shane Hines & The Trance’s CD release party for The Glory Journal. Lately, my sensible side has been winning out, though.

So, on top of work stress, I think this is enough to keep me busy for awhile, eh?